Divorce Question

Assalamu-Alaikum My husband is privy to information about me, things that should not be mentioned even if we are divorced; when I was younger, sadly I was beaten and molested, he knows this and has recently ned used it against me, the only reason I can think for him to do such a thing is that he is now trying to mentally break me. He is making a mockery out of a traumatic memory of mine and I was wondering if you could tell me if he is allowed to do this to me? jzk

Dear Brother / Sister,

As he does not have the right to do this, it is a sin to put this into words. You are not responsible for the molestation done to you. The very guilty ones are those who molested you and who regard you as guilty.

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